Alone Time

I have had a really, really frustrating morning so far. I’m not sure what it is but I’m having a very difficult time with people right now. I don’t like it. I don’t like to feel miserable or out of control when it comes to dealing with my emotions. I think it’s time that I implement some “alone time” so I can recoup from the stressful periods that I go through.

I feel like I’m constantly moving or trying to get something done, it’s almost like I feel a burn out coming on but I can’t stop myself.

I have to remember to take care of myself first before I can take care of others, learn to let go of the things that are out of my control and be okay with that. Things are not going to be perfect all the time or even half the time for that matter, I have to be okay with that too.

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Everyone Wants Something

Do you ever get that feeling that everyone wants something from you?

I’m having that feeling right now, as a matter of fact I have that feeling very often. If it’s not my sisters, it’s another member of the family, or someone at work, or someone on the street. But when the time comes where you need something no one seems to be around to offer help or support.

Maybe I need to learn the fine art of saying NO!…without feeling immediate guilt and regret of course. I need to build up the courage to respectfully tell people to kick rocks when they ask me for something, especially when it’s a big inconvenience to me. I have to start putting myself first, even if it means upsetting others.

Who knows, maybe I’ll finally be successful at putting myself first.

Start Now…

I can’t tell you the number of times that this has happened to me. Whether it’s saving for something, losing weight, taking a class or simply mending a relationship. Now that I’m older and wiser, I’ve learned the importance of time, the minutes, days and weeks that go by without a care in the world, the minutes, days and weeks that you wish you would get back.

I choose not to dwell on those minutes, days and weeks, instead, I choose to act on the ones I do have. Making every effort to make every day count so that a year from now I will be glad that I stated today!

I hope you can start something today, it doesn’t have to be big, it just has to be something, anything…have a productive day!

Learning to live in the moment,
Shar

Getting Back on Track

Now that the lazy days of summer has come to a close, it’s time to get back on track…eating right, getting regular exercise are all part of the plan. I’m looking at this as a fresh start, I’ll be doing alot this month, including working on getting my business off the ground (I’ll share more of that later), that alone is a process in itself.

The last few months have been really hard for me, I’ve been in a really low and depressive mode. I finally feel like I’m coming out of it and I’m excited about what’s to come. I’ll mainly be focusing on wealth building over the next little while, as well as looking for a new home for me and my son.

Overall, I’m just really excited about this next phase of life!

Learning to live in the moment,
Shar

Respecting Opinions

There’s a problem that I’m starting to notice more and more frequently. It happens so often on social media, but make no mistake things get pretty heated out here in the real world.

I’m talking about opinions…everyone has one…you’re lucky if you find someone to respect it.

It seems as though you can’t even give your opinion on a topic anymore because someone will take it so personal that it will turn into an argument.

There are some people in this world who just need to learn effective communication skills, know that everyone is entitled to their opinion and respect that opinion when it’s stated.

Learning to live in the moment!